A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other

Both of you have Mars conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:

     Both of you are well acquainted with frustration, and you
both struggle with internal and external inhibitions which limit
your self-expression, sexuality, spontaneity, and drive for
personal achievement. Building self-confidence, and learning to
honestly and openly express your anger and your own desires, are
important life tasks for both of you.
 
     You may be prone to chronic depression, dissatisfaction,
and resentment, unless you tackle your inner oppressors or
critics. Either or both of you can be rather coldly hostile and
even cruel, if you do not find ways to express you anger over
oppression, injustice, and abuse that you have suffered or
witnessed.
 
     Ideally, you can have empathy and compassion for each
others' struggles, and perhaps encourage one another to break
free of old fears and limits on your self-expression.

Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

James' Sun Opposition Necie's Mercury:

     Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of
you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but
unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and
perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work
together very well in practical matters, planning, organizing,
developing or communicating ideas, and your differing viewpoints
are not likely to be a serious problem.

James' Sun Trine Necie's Jupiter:

     The two of you really enjoy each other's company! Necie
has a great deal of confidence in James and is able
to see James' best qualities. You are very encouraging
and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more
confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner
and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is
also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences
in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship
discussed elsewhere in this report.

James' Mercury Square Necie'sJupiter:

     This relationship has a marked effect on the overall
attitudes and beliefs of both of you, but particularly of James.
You challenge each other's religious, political, and
philosophical beliefs. You may experience differences of opinion
that are difficult to reconcile. You are also inclined to take
risks together and speculate, sometimes foolishly.

James' Mars Sextile Necie's Neptune:

     You find it easy to extend yourselves and make sacrifices
for each other. It is easy for you to have an abundance of good
will and kind feelings for each other, and you assist each other
in achieving your goals. Your religious and spiritual
aspirations become more refined through this relationship, and
it is easy for both of you to keep your loftier goals and
spiritual ideals strong, with the support that you receive from
each other.

Other Themes in Your Relationship

Necie's Mercury Opposition James'  Pluto:

     Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You
uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find
that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most
people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree
with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is
resolved or until death - whichever comes first!

Necie's Mercury Trine James' Neptune:

     You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or
mystical quality - art, music, fiction, theater, or religion.
You kindle each other's imagination and ideals. You work
together well in the arts, and humanitarian and religious areas.
You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often
understand each other without need for words.

James' Mars Conjunct Necie's Pluto:

     You draw out of each other your deepest drives and desires.
The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in each other
that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish
extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are
brought to the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your
zealousness will produce positive, constructive results. You may
become fanatical in an extreme and unbalanced manner. Also,
sexual passion, jealousy, and competition can be very volatile,
disruptive, obsessive, and intense in this relationship.

James' Mars Trine Necie's Saturn:

     You work together extremely well. You are able to focus on
tasks, come to an agreement on what needs to be done, and get
the job done. This is a tremendous asset for individuals that
live together and build a life together because the need to
coordinate on tasks, whether they are minor tasks like grocery
shopping or major tasks like planning career goals, is a big
part of everyone's life. You help each other to be clear about
what is really important and how to accomplish your goals. You
are able to concentrate and work together in a focused,
disciplined, harmonious manner.

James' Saturn Square Necie's Pluto:

     In addition to the harmony and fulfillment you may both
experience together, there is a difficult, darker side to your
relationship as well. Your deepest fears or character defects
are brought to the fore, and you must confront the very things
you have avoided or tried to hide about yourself in the past.
This can be a very painful process and you may begin to resent,
try to control, or suppress your partner. You are much too
serious and heavy with one another at times, and must be sure
that you give equal time to play and to appreciation of the
positives. Otherwise, over time, this relationship will weigh
both of you down.

James' Uranus Square Necie's Neptune:

     Bursts of inspiration, creative imagination and insight, or
strange psychic experiences makes your relationship lively and
unusual. You may do some rather bizarre or unusual experimenting
together.

James' Mars Sextile Necie's Neptune:

     You enjoy watching movies, reading novels, discussing music
and the arts, and pursuing religious or metaphysical areas
together. You work well together in any area that involves a
strong imaginative element. The spiritual bond between you is
strong, and as you spend time together, your ideals and your
sense of purpose in life becomes more refined and intertwined.